In India section 377 is the most effective tool against child sex abuse. Not only that.
Huge number of poverty stricken Indian young men are being forced into homo-sexuality silently both in the name of myths and in the name of modernity. There is a belief amongst the rich that drinking sperm gives vitality and fresh blood, which is a non-sense. There are also beliefs like homo-sexuality cures STD’s, which is also a non-sense. But these myths do exist but are constrained to grow because of the illegality of the whole issue (Section 377).
There is also the fashion element that is spreading now-a-days on being on the other side of society, which is being actively aided and abetted by the media. This takes the form of support of homosexuals and ending up as a homo or bi-sexual.
Section 377 is the only known tool that has been stopping the growth of these myths and modern aberrations. Once it becomes legal for people to have consensual sex between adult males, it throws open the flood-gates for these myths and aberrations to prosper. Those who were afraid of the law and carrying out their canvassing in shady places will now come out in the open and carry out their activities openly.
Universally the time now has turned towards gay and lesbian movements. It is kind of being accepted that men can live men and women with women. So it is natural for Indian media to be carried away, as it sees itself as the harbinger of ‘liberty’.
What is the truth..?
All along the history of human race, trans-genders have existed and have been acknowledged. In several Indian mythologies trans-genders have been talked about with same respect that any normal gender is talked about. Shikandi and Alli in Mahabharath were eunuch kings and queens.
But this was never given the form of ‘homo-sexuality’ as it is being given today by media and pseudo-pandits on sexuality. Homo-sexuality would be an aspect of trans-genders, the not-so-fortunate gender of the human race. It is not the only aspect of them. In fact trans-genders have many other aspects other than homo-sexuality.
Several trans-genders have gained prominence in the later day history of India for art forms like music and dance. They have been well respected and acknowledged. The world did not look at them as ‘homo-sexuals’, for homo-sexuality is only one aspect of trans-genders. Trans-genders have much higher skill sets in several fields compared to normal genders, due to their unique genetic make-up.
Indian culture always treated the homo-sexuality aspect of trans-genders as their private issue. It was an issue of their bedroom privacy. What two living beings did inside their bedrooms was not an issue to be discussed in public. Instead it respected and adulated the artistic skill sets of trans-genders.
For sex between man and a woman is about communicating love, feeling the pleasure and thereby taking part in the evolution of intelligence on the planet. Hence sex was treated sacro-sanct. Higher the pleasure of sex, higher was the chance of reproduction. Thus higher the chance of evolution of intelligence.
But of-late this whole trans-gender issue has been hijacked and tweaked by the media and pseudo-sexual pandits into an issue of ‘homo-sexuality’.
The reason is to take homo-sexuality beyond the issue of trans-genders and apply it to all the genders.
The reason is to make homo-sexuality a form of entertainment, a form of aberration that can be marketed, invested, traded and made money on.
The reason is the media and businesses look at homo-sexuality as ‘a la vice’ trade. Like cigarettes, alcohol and sex on cinema, homo-sexuality can be marketed, invested, traded and billion dollar industry created.
Think about it. If a new class of trans-genders can be bred through the marketing of homo-sexuality, it would create a zillion dollar industry. In the process several normal genders have to be migrated to become trans-genders. And the best way to begin it is to ensure that homo-sexuals and bi-sexuals are accepted and adopted in the society.
This is the process that is going on currently. And it is dangerous to the whole human race. This is what seems to be the focus of several organizations who are working in this field.
What I have written may appear to be a piece of over-imagination, but humans have always exceeded their own imaginations over a period of time.
Hence If legalizing homo-sexuality means promoting it by providing an open space for it to grow in the society, it MUST be stopped.
Homo-sexuality between trans-genders is a different issue. It is not a crime. But then there is a concentrated drive by vested interests to create, nurture and grow trans-genders as a fashion and cultural item. Many normal people are being forced into homo-sexuality as a matter of choice for them.
And such people who are being directly and indirectly forced into homo-sexuality are not trans-genders. They are being indirectly forced into homo-sexuality as a matter of fashion, myths, modernity and sexual freedom, to taste something different.
Media is purposefully blurring the difference line between natural trans-genders and the people who are being directly/in-directly forced into homo-sexuality in the name of myths, modernity and fashion.
And this MUST be stopped.
Such a homo-sexuality, which is spreading as a part of modern culture amongst straight humans (non trans-genders) is against human Culture. It is against human family values that form the bedrock of democratic societies. It is against all human values and systems. It is against human evolution.
If homo-sexuality and all associated forms of relationships are allowed to flourish, then scientifically it is end of human evolution. And remember human brain can be definitely self-destructive. It can guide the whole intelligence evolution process on wrong path and destroy the society.
So we should say YES to rights of trans-genders in which homo-sexuality is a part, but NO to homo-sexuality between normal genders, say NO to marketing and propagating homo-sexuality as a cultural, modern or fashion element.
Hence legalizing homo-sexual acts of adults, even between consensual adults is wrong. It will promote these myths and modern aberrations, which are being held back by this law and eventually have the power to destroy humanity.
There need to be more qualifications in place to scrap this law or we need to simply keep this issue as an issue under the carpet, as our ancestors did. Let trans-genders live their life peacefully, but let us not create a market for being a trans-gender.
-TBT
January 27, 2010 at 2:03 am
Please clear this misconception b4 posting such articles.
March 25, 2010 at 8:20 pm
December 18, 2009 at 9:28 pm
December 18, 2009 at 9:27 pm
As for those who say gays are perverted,why are they oblivious to the fact that all straight people are also perverted? Infact just about any human is born to be perverted in someway or the other.
I hve a good word to say abt gays. gay mean dont run after women as do the hetero sexual predators, and lesbians are not running aftr men as prostitutes are.
July 25, 2009 at 9:51 pm
surah :-7 al araaf verse no 81
July 19, 2009 at 8:49 pm
It would be good if you saved me and several others from ruining our lives. All websites I have been going through till now have been saying that homosexuality is inborn and cannot be eliminated. Worse, many gays in the West are also in the way of transitioning their bodies to satisfy cross-gender paraphilias further. I am getting too much afraid with the mind devils and also the Western theories and propagandas about sex.
July 19, 2009 at 8:23 pm
Thanks for ur comments
Dear Sweety
Thanks for ur suggestion. Let me write an article on ways of sublimation of sexual energies. Some which I practised, some which our ancestors have handed over, some which I have heard.
-TBT
July 19, 2009 at 8:16 pm
For young people to get into homo-sexuality, sex drive could be a factor.
For married males having gay tendencies, sex drive may not be a factor. They have to divert their mind from sexual fantasies, concentrate on their women or get into religious chores or social work and avoid environments that promote their gay tendencies.
-TBT
July 19, 2009 at 8:14 pm
Probably they got into that situation due to some other conditions beyond them.
-TBT
July 19, 2009 at 8:11 pm
From Nandhu, I learnt that high sex drive combined with illiteracy of sex caused his condition. Also when he wanted to be out, he was trapped into it for money and fun.
After having been deep into it, I can’t expect him to say it is wrong. But he was very clear that he has strayed on to a path, which he will not stray again, given a second chance. Alas he does not have a second chance. Within his limits he lives his life to the fullest.
I respect him and wish him all the best. But I want to ensure that future does not stray like him.
-TBT
July 19, 2009 at 10:24 am
Your friend was a gay and was non-transgendered. I don’t think he became a gay just due to high sex drive. If so, you also had sex drives, why didn’t you become gay? I fail to understand.
July 19, 2009 at 1:54 am
July 19, 2009 at 1:52 am
I believe sex drive is responsible for the typical homosexuality. Do you think masterbation through fantasy is the sure way out of this?
Can a gay male spend a happy time with a woman and relieve of his homosexual desire through fantasy at the same time? What opinion do you have about this?
July 19, 2009 at 1:37 am
Our nation’s fault for ages has been to condemn people with unwanted sexual desires as heathens and to relegate them. But one should remember that any form of desires are natural, so dismissing such people as worthless will only lead them to get frustrated with Indian culture of ignorance and respect the Americans.
So, while there is an urgent need to respect equality of all mental desires, there is also a need to introduce moral science and religion in the curriculum of children so that they can utilize their sexual energies towards building the nation rather than engaging in the Western vulgarity.
July 18, 2009 at 10:42 pm
I think it is better to accept Indian culture because today, hardworking Indians are far happier and mentally balanced than the Westerners.
July 18, 2009 at 10:36 pm
Please write another article giving suggestions on how to do away with sexual desires and lead a pure life. It would be of immense help for many people like me struggling from unwanted sexual stimulations and hypersexuality.
July 18, 2009 at 6:49 pm
In general the oriental cultures where knowledge is handed down generation after generation stress on prevention than cure. Towards this end they stipulate a whole set of do’s and don’ts which ultimately stifle the society, as the logical reasoning gets lost.
In western societies this handing down of knowledge does not exist or has been lost totally. Or the methodology of hypothesize-test-analyze has been carried too far in every walk of life. While it has formed the basis of scientific temparament almost everything has to be learnt anew. So there is no prevention possible based on sagacious ancestral words. Only cure is possible, after all the problems come up and if current human knowledge finds a cure.
While oriental cultures stress of self-control and sublimation of sexual energies in productive directions, modern day western cultures promote uncontrolled exhibition of sexual energies and tendencies.
In oriental thought process unwanted things need to be suppressed and removed. Suppression and Removal involves concentrating on religion, social service, God, philosophy, Devotion/Bhakthi, Slokas, Poojas etc. People with such thoughts will be asked to divert their mind onto such things.
In western thought process if anything is unwanted it needs to be treated psychiatrically or physiologically. People with such thoughts will be asked to pay more fees to doctors and spend more on medicines, without any specific result.
Both cultures recognize Idle mind is Devil’s workshop.
You can follow western or Indian culture. It’s upto you.
-TBT
July 18, 2009 at 4:41 pm
July 18, 2009 at 2:43 pm
It is not my fear. It is an open secret that is happening in shady areas of the city I live, including most of its parks. Lot of magazine articles have come up on it recent times in Chennai.
Also this is my personal experience, which I wrote 3 years back:
http://thebigthinkg.sulekha.com/blog/post/2006/09/gay-and-happy.htm
-TBT
July 18, 2009 at 2:03 pm
India is cultured country and nothing like US can happen here. I m sure that only gays will get social status but nothing vulgar beyond that will happen in India.
July 18, 2009 at 11:42 am
The very society which a while back talked ill of homosexuality is now imitating us. But we can’t help it, neither it’s our fault or even fault of media. It is the fault of fickle-minded people who don’t know what’s good for them.
July 18, 2009 at 10:10 am
I understand HC order fully. But HC has failed to note that any recognition given to homo-sexuality will make it difficult for Law enforcing authorities to curb child-sex and adoloscent getting involved in MSM trade.
It is a very practical difficulty. We can legalize drugs also, so that we can reach to every drug addict. But then it will become uncontrollable, unstoppable for Law enforcement agencies.
-TBT
July 18, 2009 at 10:07 am
I have no qualms with your living. Everytime, Life is an one-time opportunity. Live it to the fullest. But do not propagate your living method as the living method for future, by claiming recognition for it in the public.
-TBT
July 18, 2009 at 10:05 am
If according to you homosexuality is a brain defect or psychological disorder then there is no need for this debate. As science progresses cure will be found. There is no need to legalize anything at all.
If not today, tomorrow’s science will cure it. But I don’t think it is a disease as you think.
-TBT
July 18, 2009 at 10:02 am
In your set theory A is an imaginary set of numbers and B is a real set of numbers. So n(A^B) = Nil.
-TBT
July 18, 2009 at 10:00 am
Let there be diversity in sexual interests. But why should it be brought out in the public and promoted..?
Scientists who have studied evolution pretty clearly know that bi-sexuality (2 genders) has promoted selection and elimination thereby accelerating evolution. Anything else is going back. And hence they should NOT be promoted by legalizing them and giving space for them to grow.
Legalizing means giving space to grow and prosper
-TBT
July 18, 2009 at 12:28 am
As for the author’s concern about MSM trade,it will remain in hiding even after the decriminalization because it is crime. The HC has not declared any illegal market-oriented homosexual activity as legal just like there is ban on filming pornography in many places. So, I don’t see why the author should worry.
July 17, 2009 at 8:07 pm
July 17, 2009 at 7:05 pm
If people in MSM circles are exploting this thing, it is their problem. We have not told them to do that. We just want society to recognize our problems as a genuine one and if possible, also find ways to cure it. We don’t want unncessary comments which lack knowledge and credibility.
I am gay and I am not proud to be gay and I don’t have homosexual fantasies and also don’t like anal sex. But,I just want to spend time with my boyfriend and be loved. It does not mean I want anything of sex from him, pure love is innocent love. Please don’t misunderstand people like us.
July 17, 2009 at 6:53 pm
With alcoholics and drug addicts, it is different. No person has alcohol or drugs as primary needs but every person needs love from someone. Without this love,the enthusiasm to live a life is dark. Why do you need love from your partner? Can you live without it? Thus,it is wrong to allow drug addicts to thrive but it is right to allow the homosexuals get their love to prevent them from getting into severe depression and commit suicide.
July 17, 2009 at 6:36 pm
Yes, homosexuality has to be addressed for cure. But medical researchers and psychologists are reluctant to find a cure insisting they are inborn and cannot be addressed. So, which other expert will find a cure to homosexuality?
The individual is left alone, helpless,forced to face the disorder for a lifetime alone with just nobody to address the issue. It is not that he desperately wants to enjoy the disorder, but what can he just do to be happy? It’s easy to ask him to avoid it but….
How would you feel if you spend most of your time without your desired spouse?
It may not be a birth defect always, as many say, that many boys who are heavily tormented by their male peers during childhood grow up developing innate hostility to guys and sexualize their need of love from males, hence,grow up to be gay. Yes, it may be due to environment also, but, who is there to help the individual deal with it? It’s too difficult to cure psychological stress than any physical ailment. as the causes,symptoms etc are all very intangible.
The marketing is not correct, is obvious. But,atleast it will stop people from thinking gays as perverted.
July 17, 2009 at 6:18 pm
July 17, 2009 at 6:17 pm
lolzzzzz,Raja’s way of explaining it mathematically s really gr8.
July 17, 2009 at 6:15 pm
According to your own words, homo-sexuuality is an evolutionary partial brain defect like autism.
According to your own words, as we accept autistic children and ensure they are able to enjoy lives as much as other, we need to ensure that brain-defect homo-sexuals need to be accepted and facilitated to enjoy life.
Once you say it is a case of defect, it has to be addressed for cure apart from acceptance to facilitate smooth living. It should not be celebrated and propagated.
But I don’t think homo-sexuality is a defect or dis-order to be cured. It is simply a case of sexual fantasy gone bit more awry. It is natural.
My only point was it should not be legalized as it would amount to marketing it.
-TBT
July 17, 2009 at 4:29 pm
You know the set theory formula? n(AUB)=n(A)+n(B)-n(A^B)
Now: A=Gay
B=Transgender
AUB=GLBT Community as whole
A^B= Gay as well as transgender
Does that make sense now?
July 17, 2009 at 4:07 pm
There may be normal gender people likewise, who have the atypical sexual interest. The terms should not be confued by one who respects diversity.