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How real is love at first sight?

Any person can fall in love with someone at first sight. But there is no assurance that this is the real love you have been looking for. Real love depends on both sides of the person involved in this relationship. For example you looked into someone’s eyes and you started feeling an attraction, a sense of pleasure and a satisfaction of enjoyment in his or her company. But, this does not meant that other person also has the same feelings for you.

Love is not an action. This is the relationship of two persons and a feeling of amusement. Again love at first sight depends on different situations and understanding. Even though for some people there is no reason of “why they love someone?”

Different people have different stories about love at first sight. Every male and female has its own imagination of his or her dream partner irrespective of the region, location, education, social status etc. Actually, the love at first sight is physical appearance of each other which is the magic of attraction. If both the boys and the girls have the same tendency of appearance and looking, their first contemplation is “this is the person I have been looking for long”. At this stage, people think this is the real love at first sight.

This is true at some extent, because the person who falls in love with someone is not aware of his or her understanding. As what he or she thinks about is only the face, smiling and conversation.

Real love involves understanding of each other and sharing different knowledge and information. It also happens that you love someone at first sight unconditionally and that person also comes very near to you, but he or she considers you just as a good friend wishing you make you smile, help you in different situation and cares for you.

Love at first sight always starts from looking at someone’s eyes

This is not necessary that real love always starts from looking at someone’s eyes. Love has no boundaries and restrictions. While chatting on internet through social networking sites like Facebook, twitter or Linkedin you can fall in love with someone.

Even talking to someone without looking in person, can make you feel that you are attracting to that person. You like that person because talking to him or her tickles in your heart and mind. You feel deluged and always hope to spend more and more time with him or her. This is also a feeling of real love.

If you see someone for the first time, you have a chance to have some words, each of you spends pleasing movement, cutting jokes and smiling to each other, it does not mean that this is your real love at first sight. Maybe that person does not have the same feelings you have for him or her.

Real loves happens only when both of you have the same feelings, you love each other with the passion and affection, you have planning for future and you are ready to tie knot with your love you found at first sight.

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4 Responses

  1. real love is different from love at first sight. you fell real love when you love with somebody unconditionally, but love at first sight is the love whom you fell directly when you meet with somebody with attraction.

  2. mmm. Great contribution, topic :
    I can not exit your topic before write the participation. In fact, I like all things you do.
    I like it because love realationship mean me the lot in my life.

    At the moment, there is one sentence crossed my mind, It is nice when we wake up and our mind still fall with thoughts of the other. What a beautiful love? mmm.

    Love is like amountain, difficult to reach, but by express our emotion and gave our lover people something like: Rose, message, flowers, gifts … and more, the lover people can reach to the top and then see the beautiful view.

    Thanks indeed for what written and having more successful.

    • Raida, thank you so much for beautifully posted your comment as your valuable comments encourage us to give your more and more in terms of reality and experience.

  3. Many people are confused as to if it is real love that they feel and most times it is just plain lust. Without the inclusion of chemistry, passion and deep routed mutual attraction it is not real love.