Say Nay Gay..

Rate It !   PoorNot BadGoodVery GoodExcellent
Loading ... Loading ...
Comments (110)

hsIn India section 377 is the most effective tool against child sex abuse. Not only that.

Huge number of poverty stricken Indian young men are being forced into homo-sexuality silently both in the name of myths and in the name of modernity. There is a belief amongst the rich that drinking sperm gives vitality and fresh blood, which is a non-sense. There are also beliefs like homo-sexuality cures STD’s, which is also a non-sense. But these myths do exist but are constrained to grow because of the illegality of the whole issue (Section 377).

There is also the fashion element that is spreading now-a-days on being on the other side of society, which is being actively aided and abetted by the media. This takes the form of support of homosexuals and ending up as a homo or bi-sexual.

Section 377 is the only known tool that has been stopping the growth of these myths and modern aberrations. Once it becomes legal for people to have consensual sex between adult males, it throws open the flood-gates for these myths and aberrations to prosper. Those who were afraid of the law and carrying out their canvassing in shady places will now come out in the open and carry out their activities openly.

Universally the time now has turned towards gay and lesbian movements. It is kind of being accepted that men can live men and women with women. So it is natural for Indian media to be carried away, as it sees itself as the harbinger of ‘liberty’.

What is the truth..?

All along the history of human race, trans-genders have existed and have been acknowledged. In several Indian mythologies trans-genders have been talked about with same respect that any normal gender is talked about. Shikandi and Alli in Mahabharath were eunuch kings and queens.

But this was never given the form of ‘homo-sexuality’ as it is being given today by media and pseudo-pandits on sexuality. Homo-sexuality would be an aspect of trans-genders, the not-so-fortunate gender of the human race. It is not the only aspect of them. In fact trans-genders have many other aspects other than homo-sexuality.

Several trans-genders have gained prominence in the later day history of India for art forms like music and dance. They have been well respected and acknowledged. The world did not look at them as ‘homo-sexuals’, for homo-sexuality is only one aspect of trans-genders. Trans-genders have much higher skill sets in several fields compared to normal genders, due to their unique genetic make-up.

Indian culture always treated the homo-sexuality aspect of trans-genders as their private issue. It was an issue of their bedroom privacy. What two living beings did inside their bedrooms was not an issue to be discussed in public. Instead it respected and adulated the artistic skill sets of trans-genders.

For sex between man and a woman is about communicating love, feeling the pleasure and thereby taking part in the evolution of intelligence on the planet. Hence sex was treated sacro-sanct. Higher the pleasure of sex, higher was the chance of reproduction. Thus higher the chance of evolution of intelligence.

But of-late this whole trans-gender issue has been hijacked and tweaked by the media and pseudo-sexual pandits into an issue of ‘homo-sexuality’.

The reason is to take homo-sexuality beyond the issue of trans-genders and apply it to all the genders.

The reason is to make homo-sexuality a form of entertainment, a form of aberration that can be marketed, invested, traded and made money on.

The reason is the media and businesses look at homo-sexuality as ‘a la vice’ trade. Like cigarettes, alcohol and sex on cinema, homo-sexuality can be marketed, invested, traded and billion dollar industry created.

Think about it. If a new class of trans-genders can be bred through the marketing of homo-sexuality, it would create a zillion dollar industry. In the process several normal genders have to be migrated to become trans-genders. And the best way to begin it is to ensure that homo-sexuals and bi-sexuals are accepted and adopted in the society.

This is the process that is going on currently. And it is dangerous to the whole human race. This is what seems to be the focus of several organizations who are working in this field.

What I have written may appear to be a piece of over-imagination, but humans have always exceeded their own imaginations over a period of time.

Hence If legalizing homo-sexuality means promoting it by providing an open space for it to grow in the society, it MUST be stopped.

Homo-sexuality between trans-genders is a different issue. It is not a crime. But then there is a concentrated drive by vested interests to create, nurture and grow trans-genders as a fashion and cultural item. Many normal people are being forced into homo-sexuality as a matter of choice for them.

And such people who are being directly and indirectly forced into homo-sexuality are not trans-genders. They are being indirectly forced into homo-sexuality as a matter of fashion, myths, modernity and sexual freedom, to taste something different.

Media is purposefully blurring the difference line between natural trans-genders and the people who are being directly/in-directly forced into homo-sexuality in the name of myths, modernity and fashion.

And this MUST be stopped.

Such a homo-sexuality, which is spreading as a part of modern culture amongst straight humans (non trans-genders) is against human Culture. It is against human family values that form the bedrock of democratic societies. It is against all human values and systems. It is against human evolution.

If homo-sexuality and all associated forms of relationships are allowed to flourish, then scientifically it is end of human evolution. And remember human brain can be definitely self-destructive. It can guide the whole intelligence evolution process on wrong path and destroy the society.

So we should say YES to rights of trans-genders in which homo-sexuality is a part, but NO to homo-sexuality between normal genders, say NO to marketing and propagating homo-sexuality as a cultural, modern or fashion element.

Hence legalizing homo-sexual acts of adults, even between consensual adults is wrong. It will promote these myths and modern aberrations, which are being held back by this law and eventually have the power to destroy humanity.

There need to be more qualifications in place to scrap this law or we need to simply keep this issue as an issue under the carpet, as our ancestors did. Let trans-genders live their life peacefully, but let us not create a market for being a trans-gender.

-TBT


Incoming search terms for the article:

indianhomosexwww indianhomosex comSay nay gayblogger com gayindian homo sexhomosexualiywww indianhomosexgay blogger comhomosexualitysex driveindianhomosex comhomosexindianmalayala homosex gaysmalayalam gay men to men homosex filmnay gaysexual perversion - current status (india)sexual perversions Ipcshikandi sexsocial issues life of homo sextual in indiawww homo indian sexwww indianblog comhomosexuality , , god and homosexuality , bible on homosexuality , bible verses on homosexuality , christian gays , gay church , homosexuality a sin , homosexuality sin , views on homosexuality , acceptance of homosexuality , against homosexuality , gay christian , god against homosexuality , homosexuality and the church , homosexuality catholic church , homosexuality christian , homosexuality immoral , homosexuality is a sin , homosexuality is wrong , homosexuality the church , jesus christ homosexuality , christianity and homosexuality , homosexuality , bible and homosexuality , christianity homosexuality , gay marriage , leviticus homosexuality , bible homosexuality , homosexuality and religion , cecil gutzmore , lesbianism , homosexuality nature , christians against homosexuality , homosexuality animals , against gay marriage , lesbians , culture , gender ,

By TheBigThinkg, on 02 July 2009
- who has written 41 posts on Indian Blogger.

Tags: , , , , , , , , , , , , ,


More from the same author ..



110 Responses to “Say Nay Gay..”

  1. Sallu says:

    Gender and sexual orientation of a person r 2 separate issues. A person can be transgender but may be gay,straight or bisexual. An person may be normal gendered and may be gay, straight or bisexual. Also, both gender n sexuality like in a spectrum and are non-binary.
    Please clear this misconception b4 posting such articles.

  2. Molat says:

    It depnds on how u see the picture. Gay men dont run aftr women, so in a way, they dont have one type of sexual perversion which straight guys have.

  3. Vishnu says:

    Gays have every right to follow their temptation if every heterosexual person gets the right to follow his sexual temptations. Resisting the right will mean snatching away equality of citizens. Gays are what they are, they are born as such and no medical cure exists to change them.
    As for those who say gays are perverted,why are they oblivious to the fact that all straight people are also perverted? Infact just about any human is born to be perverted in someway or the other.
    I hve a good word to say abt gays. gay mean dont run after women as do the hetero sexual predators, and lesbians are not running aftr men as prostitutes are.

  4. quran says says:

    we sent lut,when he said to his ppl “verily u approach men lustfully ,beside women .u r indeed a ppl who transgress all modesty”.
    surah :-7 al araaf verse no 81

  5. Sweety says:

    I hope you write an article soon for controlling sexual fantasies. Also, give the link to that here itself.
    It would be good if you saved me and several others from ruining our lives. All websites I have been going through till now have been saying that homosexuality is inborn and cannot be eliminated. Worse, many gays in the West are also in the way of transitioning their bodies to satisfy cross-gender paraphilias further. I am getting too much afraid with the mind devils and also the Western theories and propagandas about sex.

  6. TheBigThinkg says:

    Dear Rose, Rani

    Thanks for ur comments

    Dear Sweety

    Thanks for ur suggestion. Let me write an article on ways of sublimation of sexual energies. Some which I practised, some which our ancestors have handed over, some which I have heard.

    -TBT

  7. TheBigThinkg says:

    Dear Ritu,

    For young people to get into homo-sexuality, sex drive could be a factor.

    For married males having gay tendencies, sex drive may not be a factor. They have to divert their mind from sexual fantasies, concentrate on their women or get into religious chores or social work and avoid environments that promote their gay tendencies.

    -TBT

  8. TheBigThinkg says:

    Dear Zara,

    Probably they got into that situation due to some other conditions beyond them.

    -TBT

  9. TheBigThinkg says:

    Dear Neelam,

    From Nandhu, I learnt that high sex drive combined with illiteracy of sex caused his condition. Also when he wanted to be out, he was trapped into it for money and fun.

    After having been deep into it, I can’t expect him to say it is wrong. But he was very clear that he has strayed on to a path, which he will not stray again, given a second chance. Alas he does not have a second chance. Within his limits he lives his life to the fullest.

    I respect him and wish him all the best. But I want to ensure that future does not stray like him.

    -TBT

  10. Neelam says:

    From the article of your personal experience,you have seen gays in real life and still don’t believe there are normal-gendered gays? Please tell me why this is so.
    Your friend was a gay and was non-transgendered. I don’t think he became a gay just due to high sex drive. If so, you also had sex drives, why didn’t you become gay? I fail to understand.

  11. Zara says:

    But there are many homoromantic asexual gays too who don’t want to have too much sex but only enjoy romance or compnay. How can you say that sex-drive fuels the same-sex love for these people?

  12. Ritu says:

    I read your article on the gay people you wrote 3 years ago.
    I believe sex drive is responsible for the typical homosexuality. Do you think masterbation through fantasy is the sure way out of this?
    Can a gay male spend a happy time with a woman and relieve of his homosexual desire through fantasy at the same time? What opinion do you have about this?

  13. Rose says:

    Not all people in the West are the same though. I have read that several gay men and women have also managed to change their unwanted sexual desires through religious devotions. It is only religion which has curbed these people of many perverted sexual thoughts, not only homosexuality alone.
    Our nation’s fault for ages has been to condemn people with unwanted sexual desires as heathens and to relegate them. But one should remember that any form of desires are natural, so dismissing such people as worthless will only lead them to get frustrated with Indian culture of ignorance and respect the Americans.
    So, while there is an urgent need to respect equality of all mental desires, there is also a need to introduce moral science and religion in the curriculum of children so that they can utilize their sexual energies towards building the nation rather than engaging in the Western vulgarity.

  14. Rani says:

    The fact that medicines don’t really cure these mental problems shows that mental problems can be done away with by useful diversification. I also think poojas,meditation do help. It may not be just because God comes to help but also because the mind is diverted for a great duration which automatically makes the mind forget the crazy whims. That is by far the best cure and the best remedy.
    I think it is better to accept Indian culture because today, hardworking Indians are far happier and mentally balanced than the Westerners.

  15. Sweety says:

    You seem to be knowledgeable person. I am happy to see a sagacious person like you who believes in pujas and spirituality in modern days. I think mental desires are transitory and can always be suppressed but it is slightly difficult because in modern days there are just too many sexually arousing or stimulating things around, so, sexual control is a problem for just anyone. And things are getting worse with the diversion of this sexual energy towards perversion.
    Please write another article giving suggestions on how to do away with sexual desires and lead a pure life. It would be of immense help for many people like me struggling from unwanted sexual stimulations and hypersexuality.

  16. TheBigThinkg says:

    Dear Sweety,

    In general the oriental cultures where knowledge is handed down generation after generation stress on prevention than cure. Towards this end they stipulate a whole set of do’s and don’ts which ultimately stifle the society, as the logical reasoning gets lost.

    In western societies this handing down of knowledge does not exist or has been lost totally. Or the methodology of hypothesize-test-analyze has been carried too far in every walk of life. While it has formed the basis of scientific temparament almost everything has to be learnt anew. So there is no prevention possible based on sagacious ancestral words. Only cure is possible, after all the problems come up and if current human knowledge finds a cure.

    While oriental cultures stress of self-control and sublimation of sexual energies in productive directions, modern day western cultures promote uncontrolled exhibition of sexual energies and tendencies.

    In oriental thought process unwanted things need to be suppressed and removed. Suppression and Removal involves concentrating on religion, social service, God, philosophy, Devotion/Bhakthi, Slokas, Poojas etc. People with such thoughts will be asked to divert their mind onto such things.

    In western thought process if anything is unwanted it needs to be treated psychiatrically or physiologically. People with such thoughts will be asked to pay more fees to doctors and spend more on medicines, without any specific result.

    Both cultures recognize Idle mind is Devil’s workshop.

    You can follow western or Indian culture. It’s upto you.

    -TBT

  17. Sweety says:

    I really don’t understand why fantasies/feelings are considered as inborn disorders. Feelings and desires can be of many types and can cover a wide range. I agree with TheBigThinkg that homosexuality is only a sort of extraordinary fantasy. But then, can TheBigThinkg explain to me why the US guys show it as a disease? Could it be right? What do yout think TheBigThinkg? Why do the Western people think everything is disease? I am more worried because I myself get aroused on thinking about many sexual things about women and now I am afraid if it is an inborn trait I cannot cure myself of.

  18. TheBigThinkg says:

    Dear Ritu,

    It is not my fear. It is an open secret that is happening in shady areas of the city I live, including most of its parks. Lot of magazine articles have come up on it recent times in Chennai.

    Also this is my personal experience, which I wrote 3 years back:
    http://thebigthinkg.sulekha.com/blog/post/2006/09/gay-and-happy.htm

    -TBT

  19. Ritu says:

    Is it true that MSM trade is flourishing in gay activites? Or is it a fear of this writer that it may happen?
    India is cultured country and nothing like US can happen here. I m sure that only gays will get social status but nothing vulgar beyond that will happen in India.

  20. Angry Gay says:

    We have not asked anyone to live like us. Just like you understand our right to live life to the fullest, we also recognize others rights.We have just requested to allow us to stay peacefully. What can we do if people now start loving to imitate us?
    The very society which a while back talked ill of homosexuality is now imitating us. But we can’t help it, neither it’s our fault or even fault of media. It is the fault of fickle-minded people who don’t know what’s good for them.


Leave a Reply

All comments are moderated, so they may not appear on the site immediately.

  • Stay up to date. Get updates in Email.

  • Enter your email address: